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Love and Relationship Counseling

Overcome Your Barriers in Love

relationship-gains-blog-pictureAs I do counseling for all kinds of problems, I’m geared towards female issues, relationship questions, love and single questions. This is a part of my counseling where I focus on. It is important for a woman to feel good in her skin, feel loved, feel worthy, even if single or in a relationship. It is also important to have a good sexual identity with yourself and feel in balance with yourself. This needs male as well as female aspects in the woman.

It can be hard sometimes as a woman if you are alone or not in an optimal relationship. Sometimes it is even difficult to talk about it, because of shame, guilt, taboo, culture or certain convictions. Not everyone that has difficulty or curiosity with handling or forming a relationship is obviously seen as psychological ill, so you can most often not get advice in regular ways through psychiatrists or psychologists. This might also be just a step too far for you anyway. There can be all kinds of reasons why it is not possible for you to talk about your problems, or you can not find the right confidential who can help you deal with emotions, life questions, sexuality, being single or having a relationship, your future or ambitions.

I give single consults, relationship consults and consults directed towards sexual problems or questions. I’m also skilled at handling different cultures and religions in how to deal with your questions regarding relationships and sexuality. I know in different cultures sexuality might be taboo and also some kind of upbringing might make it difficult to explore your own identity. This can become an issue in a relationship where you find out that you are blocked or don’t feel secure in your own skin.

I can work with all kinds of women from different cultures, religions, all ages (for sex counseling you have to be above 18 years), different educational levels, spiritual or just scientific. If you resonate with the need or feeling that you want to talk or receive useful feedback, you can always contact me and we can see what is possible. Every contact always stays confidential.

We can do all kinds of exercises to let you grow as a person. These exercises come from art therapy, expression, but also tantric practices. The counseling can exist out of talking, but also exercises like breathing, meditation, dancing, scents, ambiance, mind blockages etcetera. It is a whole package and the whole person is important, it doesn’t only happen at the genitals, the whole person is involved. I’m also specialized in belly dance, gogo dance and club dance, so I can teach you how to move sensually, to feel better and more confident in your own skin.


The difference between coaching and counselling

Coaching is to teach and develop new capacities and gain new insights to look in a different way at your situation. Fancy terminology talks about cognitive behavioral therapy, nlp, positive psychology. Counselling is offering emotional support and guidance in your situation.

For the session the name is not important, so you can use another name. Looking at the sensitive topics that can be discussed I can imagine that someone doesn’t feel comfortable. If your situation is psychiatric or medical, I have to send you to another specialist in that particular field.


Single Coaching and Counseling

For Women

Single coaching/counseling is for people who don’t feel right being single or who want to know how to improve life. You don’t know what you want, or you want a relationship or you at least know that you don’t want a same or any relationship. At least you want to be happy. In the sessions we’re going to give you total awareness of your own capacities (what are they and how to use them), and we give you tools to work with in your life as a single. Also we’re going to look at previous relationship, and if there were no relationships, why didn’t they happen. We’re going to look for obstacles and how to overcome them. We’re going to look at your appearance, what kind of men do you attract, what does attraction mean to you, what do you really search for and what have you tried already. The knowledge you will gain at the sessions you can not only use in finding a suitable partner, but also in contact with friends and other relationships. It’s important to know how to present yourself. Single coaching/counselling is for you if:

Types of doubts and questions you may have

  • You’re single but not happy, or you want to have a relationship
  • You don’t feel feminine/sexual/desirable
  • Social pressure, vulnerability
  • Being shy, introvert, social phobia, black sheep
  • You’ve tried “everything”
  • Ideals, how to find the one, what is the one
  • Recovering from a broken heart, heartbreak, loss, difficulties in letting go
  • You’re in love but don’t know how to go about it
  • Loneliness, scared of ending up alone
  • Mixed relationships (culture, religion, ethnicity)
  • Attracting “the wrong type”
  • Self love, self respect, self worth, insecurity
  • Difficult childhood
  • Internet dating, pro’s and con’s
  • Female Archetypes
If you’re insecure, or you have questions about relationships or your relationship, you can send me an email and we can look if single coaching/counselling is the right solution for you. Coaching is about going further also on your own afterwards, so you have to practice and you will get tools to get ahead, while you get feedback and tips. Counseling is for the emotional support and room for emotional letting out.

Single coaching/counselling is also interesting for people who just want someone to listen to them and give them meaningful feedback about their process and in which direction they might better develop.

  • Intake – 90 min for $120 
  • Follow up sessions – 60 min for $75
  • Online sessions – 45 min for $60 

Relationship Coaching & Counseling for Women

Young and Old

Do you feel you crossed a certain dilemma in your relationship and you want to hear some feedback? Do you feel your relationship is in a bad shape or not that fun anymore, or your sex life is going through the drain? All kinds of questions around your relationship are good to talk about. During an intake we can look at the situation and give an estimation for a solution or different solutions.

If you’re open for it we can totally fit in an astrological consult to look deeper into the relationship dynamics and the potential of your relationship. This can be a real sufficient method to learn and develop in your relationship. I would recommend anyone who starts or is in a relationship to investigate in the astrological side of the relationship, because it gives good insights in the dynamics that play under the surface.

  • Intake – 90 min for $120
  • Follow up sessions – 60 min for $75 
  • Online sessions – 45 min for $60 

Sex Counseling for Women


If you have a certain issue that you don’t know how to deal with in your sexual life, then sex counseling might be useful for you. If you have questions or you come across certain unchanging patterns within yourself or if you cannot seem to progress at where you are in your sexual life, you might benefit from counseling. The counseling sessions exists out of talking and some Tantric exercises. Afterwards I give you homework to practice in the privacy of your own home. I combine the traditional western knowledge with the eastern Tantric knowledge, which makes my therapy more effective than just western counseling, where there is no real space for a holistic (healthy/spiritual) view on sexuality.

  • Sessions – 60 min for $115


NEW! Single Horoscope Analysis 1 hour - ($115)

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Are you already single for a while and you want to know what kind of type fits your personality, we can look at your horoscope and see what the stars have to tell about your love life. We can look at your man image/female image, what you find attractive, how do you attract someone, what went wrong in previous relationship (if applicable) and how can you attract for you a suitable mate or how do you seduce that certain partner that you fancy. This is a combination of coaching and astrology. Here I use astrology as a basis for the coaching sessions.


Synastry Relationship Horoscope Analysis - 2 hour - ($265)

This is a one time only consult to get a better image of your relationship. It is important that both partners give consent for the birth dates/times/places for this horoscope. It is highly personal. It is meant to look at the dynamics of the relationship. It’s also interesting if you don’t bump into problems in your relationship yet, but you’re just curious about your potential as a couple. For both partners there is made a separate horoscope. For both partners is needed a birth date, birth time and birthplace. This can also be fun to have as a symbol of your relationship! If there is problems in the relationship, this can be a good way to start consults and sessions in relationship coaching.


Composite Relationship horoscope analysis - 1 hour - ($105)

This horoscope can only be made after the synastry relationship horoscope analysis. This is because this horoscope combines both your energies and gives a representation of your relationship as is, so which road your relationship takes combining both of your energies. The difference is that synastry exists out of two individual horoscopes and composite is one horoscope of the relationship itself. This is also a fun gift or symbol for your relationship!


For every astrological service I need per mail the next details:

– Name/names

– Birth date, birth place, birth time

– Your email address and if you want personal contact, your phone number

– You want to make an appointment, specific question with explanation if applicable

– If you’re a bit further in astrology and you have a specific question, do mention that upfront, so I can see if I can answer it through mail or if a consult would be better.

– You can also gift a horoscope analysis to a friend or family member! Ask for the possibilities.